One door closes. NOW what??

That is totally up to us!

Green door European styleWe can thank Alexander Graham Bell for this wonderful quote:

When one door closes another door opens, but we so often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door, that we do not see the ones which open for us.

That is so very true!

While we may think of Alexander Graham Bell only as the inventor of the telephone (we learned that as kids!), there was much more to Mr. Bell. He endured many hardships in life – as we all do – but he persevered to “see the good” and have an appreciation for the new doors that could and did open in his life. Hopefully we can do the same.

Have doors closed for us? Yes. We can all think of a few…or maybe even several.  Loss may close some doors. Age alone may close some doors. Unexpected life changes can close some doors.

Have new doors opened for us? Yes! To see those doors we must approach life with an open mind, an open heart, and with our eyes wide open. How else can we take advantage of wonderful serendipity when it comes our way? Of course, hope and optimism are also required!

Years ago I read the book Repacking Your Bags: Lighten Your Load for The Rest of Your Life by Richard Leider and David Shapiro. Here is a great take-a-way from that book:

There are many doors to open and close in our lives.  Some we leave ajar, where we hope and plan to return.  Some doors are slammed shut decisively – ‘No more of that!’  Some are closed regretfully, softly – ‘It was good but it is over.’  Departures entail arrivals somewhere else.  Closing a door means opening onto new vistas, ventures, new possibilities…

Yes, I’ve slammed some doors. I’ve closed others regretfully. And some doors have been closed on me. Did that hurt sometimes? Sure. Did life go on? Yes, it did!

As kindred spirits in aging, we can view this life journey as a time for new opportunities with new doors to open. Not doing so would be boring…and frankly depressing!

Let’s not move backwards (we’ve already been there!). Let’s not stay the same. Let’s open new doors, keep contributing, keep learning and make the very most of “the days of our lives.”

Here’s to opening new doors…together!

2 thoughts on “One door closes. NOW what??”

  1. Hi Kate, I know that I have also closed doors in my life. Some were hard to bear, yet, we must go on. The “NOW what” is what you make it. So, I choose to welcome new beginnings.

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    1. You’re absolutely right, Nzinga. Some of our closed door are so, so hard to bear. How we react to those closed doors…and ultimately the choices we make…make ALL the difference in our lives. Though it’s not always easy…I choose to welcome new beginnings as well. THANK YOU SO MUCH for your comment, Nzinga! Love you.

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